How can I throw a nice party?

Kso, my birthday is tomorrow, but I am not having my party for another two weeks. Around where I live a "good time" is going into the bush and getting hammered. I am not like that AT ALL. My family is really formal and we only drink at dinner and its only a glass of wine. But, I want to throw a really nice party without there being any drinks. And the issue is if there is no drinks its not fun! I am in a bit of a pickle and I need help! my mom needs my plans by tonight so she can get all the party supplies tomorrow! So help FAST please!!! Thanks in advance.